Buzzing your Prostate using your Phone

Well, not exactly.

As I mentioned a few posts ago (and I am sorry that I've been away for so long), I purchase a Hush butt plug. It touts itself as the world's first teledildonic butt plug. I'm pretty sure that's not a real word, but whatever.

The base has a bluetooth receiver built into the base which connects to your phone (android or iphone). You can control the vibrations via an app on the phone.

This now opens up a whole world of opportunity (literally). You can control the device yourself or you can have someone on another phone nearby control the buttplug. You (or someone else) controls the intensity of the vibrations and you can download patterns, sync to music or let someone control your plug over the internet!

It comes in 2 sizes--I purchased the smaller because I'm a wuss, but it is about right for me.

It can stay in your butt for quite a while, between one and two hours. I have managed to thoroughly enjoy the Hush. My prostate leaks like a bad faucet with it in. With the right penile stimulation, I was able to achieve a ruined orgasm. And I mean ruined: I didn't feel any shooting, the cum just dribbled out. I was so focused on the vibration on my prostate and boi-cunt, I didn't notice the orgasm, I just felt the cum dribbling down my little dicklet.

I had some problems with the server, but that seems resolved.

I'd give it 4 stars.  We live in amazing times!

I really needed that

I haven't received my Hush remote controlled butt plug yet and I thought I would get in the mood by using my Aneros prostate massager.

I've been using it before I go to bed. Not for long, maybe 30-60 minutes. I usually get a bit of  precum from using the Aneros. But last night, wow. I felt like I was going to break out of my cage and I was leaking a ton.

I should have take a picture. I guess almost 3 weeks had my prostate full.

Hush, Hush, Sweet Charlotte

I love getting new toys, particularly sex toys. Not that I have a lot.

I ordered a Lovense Hush anal plug. (click here) and I can't wait for it to arrive.

What makes this special is that it is remotely controlled. It uses a smartphone app. Talk about the internet of things.

You can also give control to someone else!  Maybe I'll let one of my followers have a try. Anyone interested?

Holy Trainer

Sometimes I Hate It

We shouldn't be surprised that we sometimes hate being in chastity.

Yesterday and today I'm just not feeling it. It's not that I'm particularly horny but I just want this thing off.

It will take some self discipline and I think my pride will make me stick it out.

Horny and Dripping

I Forgot

I was driving around this afternoon busy with “things” and a thought struck me: “Am I wearing my cage?”

Of course, I was but I’m so used to it that I had to feel for it to be sure.

OK, is that strange?

Cagednutmegs

I've also started a tumblr, http://cagednutmegs.tumblr.com/

Please feel free to visit.

Horny all night

Woke up three times with attempted erection pulling on my balls. And I'm still horny this morning.

While it's great to feel those hard-ons being held down, after a while my cock and balls are a bit sore.

In a Hurry

Well, I had a lot of coffee this morning and went to the mall for some shopping. Had to go. Didn't want to go into the stalls and sit to pee. One of the problems with the Jailbird is that sometimes the cage gets twisted around and the penis along with it. Anyway, I had to go badly and just walked up to the urinal, opened my fly and pulled my cage through the y-front of my boxer briefs and let go.

I knew something was wrong as soon as I felt something warm and wet going down my left leg. 

I've made this mistake before but not in such a public place.  Do you think anyone noticed?

A Couple of Days, Really Horny

Just a couple of days locked and I'm very horny. Maybe it's the warmer weather, but it's probably the fact that I had some orgasms Saturday and miss them now.

And we're back

Back locked in my Jailbird. Had a nice Saturday with 3 cums: one ruined and two regular. I did manage to clean out the pipes.

But I'm locked up now and my cock doesn't like it. It likes to be hard.

It pays to advertise

Ruined

After being locked for about 2 weeks, I unlocked and wanted a nice big orgasm.

I went online a started looking at some hot gay porn. I like to wrap a piece of rope around my nuts and pull gently.

I just a few minutes I could feel an orgasm building so I backed off.

But it was too late and two weeks of cum leaked out. Not very satisfying. I'll try again later.

What do you want?

A brief poll for my readers:

What do you want to see me blog?

1. Advice on choosing a chastity cage and wearing it
2. Photos of me in my cage
3. My feelings and experiences wearing a cage
4. Other

Please reply in the comments. 💓

Boxers or Briefs

When I'm in my chastity cage, I usually prefer to wear my boxer briefs or my bikini briefs. It gives me more support and I get fewer problems with skin irritation or discomfort. On the other hand, when I wear my Mature Metal Jailbird, I can feel the cage swinging around in my boxers. Not so much when I wear my Holy Trainer in boxers.

Of course, this is a matter of personal preference and I must admit that I usually wear boxer briefs when I'm not locked.

As always, your comments are most welcome.

Why do I do what I do?

I've read a few blog posts recently and I'm reading a book about coming out later in life that have me thinking (again) about chastity. Why do I do it?

Is is because I'm a sub at heart? Was I born this way (gay sub)?

Am I a control freak? Do I want to control my sexuality? Am I ashamed? Do I want to punish myself?

Is it because I'm a bit of an exhibitionist? Like a tattoo or a leather collar?

I don't know. What's your reason?

Less is More

I've noticed that I feel less discomfort if I use little or no lube on my ring. It seems counter-intuitive, but it's true. Maybe I'm just getting to the point where my body is getting used to the cage?

"Finally Out: Letting Go of Living Straight"

I don't know if I've mentioned this on this blog before, but I led a straight life for many years--up until I was in my later 40s. I was married and had children. Growing up in the 50s in a religious home didn't offer a lot of options. The short version was I always knew inside that I was gay, I thought I could keep it controlled. At some point I couldn't live the lie.

There's a whole lot more to the story, but I was told about a new book, "Finally Out: Letting Go of Living Straight" written by Lauren Olsen, MD. Lauren is a psychologist who came out later in life and has studied men who have similar stories. I think there are lots of us. We don't all have the same story: some come out sooner and some never come out.

I'm not finished with the book and I'll be happy to give a full report once I've digested it. But I like to so far.

Dawn's Early Light

I must be feeling better. I woke up this morning to a nice attempted hardon with a dribble of precum.