Discipline

No cage is totally secure. You are in a cage because you want to be.

Chastity is a decision you make. If a nut slips out, take the cage off and put it back on.

Of course you will "want" to take the cage off and flog your dick until you can't cum anymore. But you made a commitment to your keyholder and/or yourself. It's called discipline and like other BDSM kinks, it plays on your most important sex organ, your mind.

Not much happened while you were gone.

I seem to be on a more-or-less regular schedule of being locked for two weeks at a time. I'm usually locked in my Mature Metal Jailbird but i sometimes go with the Holy Trainer 2, particularly if I need to go though metal detectors.

I'm still enjoying being locked. As a matter of fact I look forward to being locked when I'm unlocked. I still want to feel my cage holding tight to my balls. I love the feeling of my erection being constrained when it tries to erect. There is still a childish thrill in knowing that people around me would be shocked to know that I have this kink.

Chaffing

So, I was locked in my Jailbird for 10 days and started feeling a bit of chaffing along the top right of my ring. So, I took it off and let it heal for a couple of days. When i went to put the cage back on, it was somewhat sore, so I took it off and will give it a few more days to heal up.

Getting Used to Jail Bird

I took a week off from the Jail Bird and went back to my Holy Trainer 2.

Last night I put the Jail Bird back on. It takes longer to put it on but I think that may improve as I get more experience. My biggest problems are getting my balls through the hoop, but that's the problem with all trap ball devices. I am also having difficulty with the security screw. I find it difficult to align the screw with the holes on ring. I'm sure it will be easier as I figure it out.

I had a good night with it on but time will tell.

The Boys

 

I don't think they would like what I do to them.

Jailbird First Impressions

The good news is that my Jailbird seemed to fit very well. I was able to wear it a night, during the day at work and another night. The fit seems about right, maybe a bit tight on the ring but people say that you should err on the side of a smaller ring.

The build quality is excellent. I like the fact that the open tube should allow me to wear the cage for longer periods of time between cleanings. You have to pee sitting down. The "jail bar" construction tends to spray the urine around. My Holy Trainer was built with an end hole that allowed me to pee standing up. Not so here.

The second night I fell some pain under my balls when I had a full bladder but it went away when I got up and urinated.

I got up this morning and exercised, some stretching and exercise on my stationary bike. No problems but afterwards I had pain under my balls where the ring rubbed. I put a bit of baby oil gel under the ring but it didn't help. So I took the device off. I think it's better to take it off for half a day or a day rather than "tough it out" and end up with a longer term injury.

So, I'll keep you posted about my new toy. It's not unusual to have to get accustomed to a new device.

Just got my Jailbird

I just got my Mature Metal Jailbird in the mail! I'm so excited but I have to wait until I get home and and take off my Holy Trainer 2 and put this new metal on. It's surprisingly heavy in the hand.